Don’t Vajazzle Your Vajiggle Jaggle and 20 Other Things I Wish I Knew When I Was 20.

1. Do not hot glue fake rhinestones to your vajayjay. This trend is asinine and stupid and lots of other words for find-something-better-to-do-with-your-time-and-money. And private parts. 2. In the same vein, don’t wax every pubic hair from your lady parts to please a man. If you wanna do a brazilian for you, go for it. But don’t do it for him. Two very good reasons: A) It hurts like a mofo. Imagine pouring gasoline on your labia, letting it settle in for a bit and then lighting it on fire. Eerily similar. B) Any man who thinks having hair down there is nasty is not worth your time. You’re a woman, not an 8-year-old girl. Trim it, shape it, shave it into a Hitler mustache. But don’t wax it all off. And for God’s sake, don’t even go near the threading shop. 3. Confidence can be faked. You’ll find that if you fake it long enough, you’ll genuinely have it. And there is nothing more attractive than confidence. Not a thing. Not any amount of make-up, not big boobs, not even a great smile. And definitely not a rhinestone-bedecked vagina. Don’t Vajazzle Your Vajiggle Jaggle and 20 Other Things I …

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Jewish Hair Laws Through the Ages

With regards to hair, the Bible seems to indicate that cutting a woman’s hair was a way to make a woman unattractive. The sole place in the Bible depicting a woman’s hair being cut is in the laws of the captive woman (Deut 21:12). After a period of one month, during which time she was permitted to mourn her family, the captor might then claim her for his wife. The fact that her hair was shaved at the beginning of her captivity, whether as a sign of her subjugation or as a part of her mourning, may also indicate to what extent hair was considered an adornment to women. Some scholars have suggested that cutting her hair made the captive less attractive to her captor, perhaps even with the intent that over the course of the month his ardor would cool and he would eventually let her go. This practice of cutting a woman’s hair, which only pertained to captives during biblical times, later developed into a cultural distinctive for some Jewish women. The practice of shaving a woman’s hair upon marriage, while not directly influenced by this biblical account, became prevalent in central Europe and especially Hungary in the …

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Katie Seaver

In a move that many might call completely crazy, one North Carolina woman left behind her high-powered job, shaved off all her hair – effectively ‘pulling a Britney’ – and split from her boyfriend. And she doesn’t regret it for a minute. Katie Seaver, 27, was never one to do anything drastic. An Ivy League grad with a successful career in Manhattan, a boyfriend, and feminine, shoulder-length hair, the overachiever was on what most would call the straight and narrow – that is, until she decided to quit the job, ditch the boyfriend, and shave off all that curly brown hair. ‘I felt more alive and exhilarated than ever before, even though it was terrifying,’ she wrote in an essay for Cosmopolitan.com. ‘I felt like I had blown up my life as I knew it, and I was starting from scratch.’ Read more: here

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